At freedom psychology we want to help you have freedom from your unwanted or upsetting sexual thoughts. Having sexual thoughts about children, forced sex, or other types of unhealthy sex does not mean that you will act on them.
You have the choice.
Having these types of thoughts does increase the probability of crossing the line and committing an offence, but the fact that you are looking for help shows you are more in control than you realise. From experience, we know that people who have unwanted sexual thoughts can be helped to make changes and prevent offending.